The Perfect Date: Will We "Click"?

A great date starts with a tango... intrigue. A perfect mélange of  attraction and anticipation. Your curiosity is peaked so that you just have to know more. To meet. Daring to take that first step..

Its a delight to see in my inbox a thoughtful and genuine request from a gent seeking to connect on a deeper level. He has enjoyed more than just my pictures . He wants to know the woman, not the idea. I find myself increasingly attracted to men who value intimacy and great conversion just as much as physical attraction -- and a bit of humor goes a looong way. A well-crafted and charming introduction that is more than just the 'bare minimum' -- sure to peak my own interest and definitely set my heart aflutter.

An amazing date does not depend on what you do, but who you do it with. Simply, the perfect date is one in which you and I truly enjoy spending time with each other. Our established report makes our meeting natural, lighthearted, and thoroughly satisfying.

As an independent companion, I am fortunate enough to pick my suitors based not only on safety and comfort, but also compatibility. Enduring through a date is not an experience I desire (and thankfully, a situation that has been virtually nonexistent) for that would be neither fair to you nor would it allow me to enjoy being a companion. It is a simple concept, really.

[CliffNote]

Communication + Chemistry = :-)

Who is She?

Smart girl. Knocking out two birds with one stone ;-)

Despite that this commercial is an advertisement -- suddenly, I have a hankering for a caipiroska! -- the undertone of the piece rocks. I couldn't help but chuckle a bit also!

She is beautiful, "normal" and unassuming. The brunette reading in the coffee shop. That friendly soccermom in the produce isle. Or perhaps, a petite, curly haired, and honey-skinned ray of sunshine basking in the afternoon sun at the park... ;-)

She can very well be some lucky gent's private muse... A companion. Or dominant mistress. Whatever floats the boat. LOL

The Sexiest Organ...

...Is the mind.

Session five of "Hysterical Literature". To see more sessions, click here.

On the surface, this video is all the things you would think it would be: artistic, erotic and extremely arousing. When watching for the first time, I found myself hanging on each word; waiting for any minute change in her body language -- a slight jump, a gasp, or a lilt in speech. The anticipation was most pleasurable. Having the mind flesh out exactly what is happening under that table was perhaps the most erotic thing I have ever experienced.

After reading on the origins of making this project, I admire the series even more. 

Such a powerful commentary about the series, from Amanda Hess:

“Her choice is between sexual object and human subject. That’s always been a false dichotomy, one built to separate women into good girls and damaged sluts, then exert control over their sexuality at both ends. Hysterical Literature hits the internet at a time in human history where it is increasingly possible for women to obliterate that distinction, to express our sexuality without surrendering our agency.”

 - Amanda Hess, Blogger: Sex With Amanda Hess

This speaks to me on many levels: as one of those women who has chosen to not align herself to society's archaic and flawed dichotomy; as a feminist who believes that women (let alone ANYone) policing other women's behavior is an ironic tragedy; and as a woman who isn't afraid of being completely in control of her being -- sexually, mentally, and somatically.

Enjoy the catnip for thought :-)